A House On Fire (Week 5) - Kid’s Room

Summary:

This sermon focuses on building our lives on Jesus' teachings and the importance of parenting. It explains two deals available: following Jesus' words which leads to a strong, resilient life; or merely listening without action, which leads to a life prone to falling apart. To build a life on Jesus' teachings, we must love God and love others. Parenting involves aligning our values with God's and being purposefully present and attentive to our children. Ultimately, we must rely on God's guidance in parenting and in building our lives.

Discussion Questions:

What role does God's grace play in our parenting, especially when dealing with past wounds, guilt, shame, and regret?

God's grace frees us from having to hide or deny our weaknesses, allowing us to approach parenting with humility and the assurance of His support. The Bible shares examples of flawed parents and parenting, reminding us we are not alone.

How can you invite God's grace into your parenting or relationships with children, and is there any specific area where you need His grace and healing?

Why is it important to pay attention to what's happening in our children's hearts and address their needs with grace?

Paying attention to our children's hearts allows us to address their needs more effectively and with the love and understanding that God shows us. This helps them grow emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.

What practical ways can you be more attentive to the hearts of the children in your life, and how can you practice grace in your interactions with them?

What is the crucial task assigned by God to parents as highlighted in the sermon?

In the sermon, Brad discussed the importance of parents reflecting God's likeness in their children's lives. Parents have a crucial task, issued by God, to raise their children in a way that aligns with Jesus' teachings and the values of God's kingdom.

How can parents reflect God's likeness and instill Christian values in their children's lives?

How do apathy and pride influence the role of parenting in a Christian life?

The sermon talks about the significance of parenting in Christian life, shaping our family values and goals to mirror God's kingdom values and goals. Despite the challenges that come with parenting, including past wounds, guilt, and regrets, grace allows parents to acknowledge their shortcomings and keep striving.

Are there instances where your pride (over involvement/Identity Parenting) or apathy (detachment/Free Range Parenting) have hindered you from fully embracing the task of Christian parenting and reflecting God's likeness to your children? How can you overcome these shortcomings?

What are some key principles shared in the sermon about being a good parent?

Key principles include being purposefully present, attentive, and aware in our children's lives, reflecting God's image as a provider and protector, His likeness and character, and teaching our children to see the world through Jesus' perspective.

What practical steps can you take to implement these principles in your parenting or interactions with children in your life?

Scripture:

Matthew 7:24-27, Mark 12:29-31, Deuteronomy 6:1-9, Exodus 20:12